Let’s Talk About the Real Work of Balance

When I was a teenager—and even into college—I believed that having it all was inevitable. I never questioned whether women could build successful careers, fulfilling home lives, and pursue a wide range of interests. It wasn’t until I graduated and entered the workforce that I began to see the cracks in that optimistic perspective.

As I started my career in consulting, I quickly noticed how few women ahead of me had both thriving careers and families. I became aware—often uncomfortably so—of the ways misogyny and patriarchal norms still quietly shaped the professional world. I also observed something closer to home: many of the older women in my life had shaped their entire identities around their husbands’ careers or their children’s needs. While I fully support every woman’s right to choose that path, I knew deep down it wasn’t the right one for me.

I adore my husband and son—my love for them is endless. But to feel truly whole, I need more. I need creative outlets, intellectual stimulation, and a sense of purpose beyond the walls of my home. I’ve made the conscious decision not to be a stay-at-home mom. At the same time, I’ve also chosen not to sacrifice my relationship with my family for the sake of career success. Walking this tightrope—balancing ambition with presence—is not easy. In fact, it's one of the hardest things I’ve ever done.

Over time, I’ve sought out strong female role models who are navigating this same path. It’s not common, but they exist—and they’ve given me hope. The women I’ve found are bold, thoughtful, and resilient. Their stories inspire me, and they remind me I’m not alone.

That’s what I hope to offer here. Through these posts, I want to create space for like-minded women to connect, share, and inspire one another. If even one person finds encouragement, a new perspective, or a little more grace for herself through this, it will all be worth it.